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Finding Your Why by Lori Zabka
I was recently on a work trip, being driven to the hotel by a sweet man in his 70's named Slava. Almost instantly, we started chatting about health, fitness and food - food is the tie that binds us all, right? He showed me photos from his youth, when he was in his 20’s and quite an athlete! He detailed the healthy foods he enjoyed and how he still works out every day. He said his gym bag was in the trunk, and he had already done his workout that day.
Then Slava told me something that I will never forget. “Listen, young lady," he said, "I work out so that I can die healthy!” I sat, stunned, realizing the brilliance of his statement. I told him that he was a very smart man and asked if I could write about him. He liked that … and spelled his name out clearly so that I would get it right. :-)
I loved Slava’s statement. I appreciated the wisdom in his words. Slava had found his “why.” Finding our “why” is one of the most important first steps when we are setting out on any journey, especially one of health and wellness. We have to dig deep and ask ourselves: "Why" am I going to attempt to change my lifestyle and habits, when doing so is not always easy?
We form habits, and then we stay with those habits because they become safe and familiar, and we are already in them. Climbing out of a well is much harder than falling into one! Unless we identify what is driving us to a place of desired change - why we want to go there in the first place - we will quickly get distracted when the journey becomes difficult. And it will.
Slava realized that he didn’t want to follow the path that others do as they age. He didn’t want disease, demise, and death. He wanted health, vitality, and life. Finally, Slava said, “When it’s time, I don’t want to die sick; I just want to die!”
When a client comes to me for help in reaching her goal, I ask her why she chose to reach out at this particular time. What brought her to the point where she wants to hire a professional? I usually do a lot of listening to uncover what's at the heart of her desire for change. Everyone has different goals and reasons for wanting to attain them. No one is right or wrong; our reasons are personally meaningful to each of us.
Once your “why” has been established, the hard work begins. Wouldn’t it be fantastic if we could make 180 degree changes in our lives overnight, simply by deciding to do so? For the most part, that is not how we are wired. Taking a trash bag into the kitchen and tossing out the “bad” things is admirable, but that act does nothing to change our patterns of behavior. Breaking out of our comfort zone is a process; one that requires a plan and setting an intention. Where eating habits are concerned, patience, time, and intention - your "why" -are key.
True wellness stems from freedom, pleasure, celebration, gratitude, and joy. The wellness world has become too complicated. The basics still hold true: Eat more plants; move your body and sweat; get plenty of water, rest, laughter, and love; forgive yourself and others—whole body stuff here! There are hacks to trick you into following a healthy lifestyle, but simplicity is the space in which we feel safe enough to start.
So let me ask you - what is your "why?"
One of the biggest obstacles that get in the way of my clients’ goals is excessive sugar intake. Across the board, this is the biggest issue and one that is very difficult to rise above. Besides adding empty calories and adding our fluff to our fat cells, sugar has more sinister and far-reaching effects. Sugar creates chronic inflammation in our bodies, and inflammation is a HUGE road block/barrier to our health goals. Whether or not we feel the typical symptoms of inflammation, it’s likely that our bodies are battling it daily.
Chronic inflammation brings weight loss to a halt, creates brain fog, hormonal imbalances, pain, inability to sleep, depression, fatigue, and leads to disease. The first line of defense against this beast is reducing your sugar intake. Sugar is a hard habit to break. In truth, sugar is more addictive than cocaine and heroin, so ditching it takes effort. It CAN be done ... we just have to start small.
Kale chips, a splash of California sun and a Billboard hit are all part of the recipe of Lori Zabka’s life’s work. Founder of wellness company, “Life by Lori Z,” her full-time passion is helping other busy women find their own voices and live their healthiest lives.
"I lay wise parameters, but ultimately, I aim to awaken my clients to their own intuition. We are all designed with the innate ability to counsel ourselves wisely. But sometimes, along the way, our inner voice is silenced. My passion is helping women find their voice, dust it off, and use it! Weight loss and a smooth waistline are just side effects of a body, mind, & spirit that have found the courage to speak up again."
Find your voice!
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Action #2
Protein First
What is it that sends you sprinting to the pantry for a quick hit of the white stuff? This is first and foremost, because without knowing what sets you off, you will be fighting an endless battle. Think about your pitfalls, and then create a plan to overcome them. Write out your action plan; tape it to doors and mirrors—seriously. The struggle is real, but the solution is nearby.
Action #2
Don't Go Hungry
Don’t skip meals or eat too little calories. Eat your 3 squares a day, each complete with greens, healthy fat, fiber, and protein. When you give your body what it needs to do the work of living your amazing life, your cravings for sugar will decrease. Nourish your fabulous self.
Action #1
Identify Your Triggers
What is it that sends you sprinting to the pantry for a quick hit of the white stuff? This is first and foremost, because without knowing what sets you off, you will be fighting an endless battle. Think about your pitfalls, and then create a plan to overcome them. Write out your action plan; tape it to doors and mirrors—seriously. The struggle is real, but the solution is nearby.
Action #2
Avoid Artifical Sweeteners
We wrongly assume that artificial sweeteners are a better choice because they have less (or zero) calories. Please don’t buy into this! Artificial sweeteners, besides being like poison to our bodies, actually cause our bodies to crave sugar. Choose honey or stevia instead.
Action #2
Don't Go Cold Turkey
Doing too much, too fast can cause a nasty backlash. Start by adding more healthy fat, fiber, and protein into your overall diet. Then, cut sugary portions in half by mixing them with non-sugary ones. Try mixing plain greek yogurt in with your usual yogurt. Doing so will make the blood sugar spike less dramatic, causing you to crave less sugar.
Action #2
Break A Sweat
If we are addicted to sugar, there is an excess amount of insulin in our bodies, which makes us store fat and crave even more sugar. The fastest way to get rid of insulin? Exercise! Use your muscles! They will gobble up that excess sugar and help you break a nice, detoxifying sweat, too. Win-win!